dontium

wanghlady posted on 2015-4-10 09:12 You are absolutely right. I just want to work quietly and be a supporting role. I don’t want to be the focus (although it is impossible to be the focus). What the forum friends said represents the personal thoughts of friends. All thoughts are the result of the influence of the specific environment in which the individual is in. Things happened, and there must be reasons. Maybe I did something wrong and offended him, so he hurt me with words. Maybe he has this special temperament. I think I will consider it from my own perspective and try not to have a bad impact on myself. Thank you

Having said that, if your personality is threatened, you cannot give in! -----I believe that this situation should not happen in general work matters.

shower.xu

In this regard, the atmosphere in foreign companies is much better, and younger companies are much better.

qwqwqw2088

In our company, there are female engineers, but most of them are either product engineers or managers after working for a few years, and then they become leaders of various departments, and they all do a good job. It's not that female engineers can't do a good job, after all, the front line of R&D is too energy-consuming, and women also consume energy at home. I guess the OP will know it after getting married. I don't discriminate against the OP. I believe you can do a good job in R&D, but you should retire from R&D at a certain stage. Don't always worship Marie Curie... This is what I think.

wanghlady

soso posted on 2015-4-10 09:18 If you like the job, do it. If you don't like it, change it. Women don't have to put themselves in a difficult position. Or you can grow up as quickly as possible and move to a better company. Or you can submit a resume to EEworld. There are more women here than men doing the work.

Haha, that's great

wanghlady

dontium posted on 2015-4-10 09:22 Then again, if your personality is threatened, you can't give in! ----- I believe that this kind of situation shouldn't happen in general work matters,

Yeah haha

wanghlady

qwqwqw2088 posted on 2015-4-10 09:32 In our company, there are female engineers, but most of them are either in product technology, or work in management for a few years, and later become leaders of various departments, and they all do a good job. It’s not that female engineers can’t do a good job. After all, the front line of R&D is too energy-consuming, and women also spend energy at home. I guess the OP will know after getting married. I don’t mean to discriminate against the OP. I believe you can do a good job in R&D, but you should retire from R&D at a certain stage. Don’t always worship Marie Curie... This is what I think.

Your Majesty, where should you retire? Please give me some advice.

wanghlady

shower.xu posted on 2015-4-10 09:28 In this respect, the atmosphere in foreign companies is much better, and younger companies are much better

Yes, I also like younger companies. The technical department of our company is all between 45 and 65 years old.

soso

wanghlady posted on 2015-4-10 09:37 Hahaha that's great

:pleased::pleased:

wanghlady

okhxyyo posted on 2015-4-10 09:21 Try your best to do your own thing and live your life well~ Other people's ideas cannot influence your life. It is always your own emotions and actions that influence your life.

Thank you. Nice to meet you. Hehe

wanghlady

okhxyyo posted on 2015-4-10 09:22 Added it~

Hehe  

okhxyyo

wanghlady posted on 2015-4-10 09:38 Your Majesty, where should you retire to? Please give me some advice

I think management is a popular choice~~

okhxyyo

wanghlady posted on 2015-4-10 09:41 Thank you. Nice to meet you. Hehe

Same~~ let's make progress together~

wanghlady

okhxyyo posted on 2015-4-10 09:45 I think management is the general choice~~

I will consider this direction, O(∩_∩)O

wanghlady

okhxyyo posted on 2015-4-10 09:46 Same~~ let’s make progress together~

Okay↖(^ω^)↗

qq849682862

Generally speaking, it is not recommended for women to enter this industry. As they get married and have children, they will definitely change their careers. It is better to enter another industry as soon as possible.

wanghlady

qq849682862 posted on 2015-4-10 09:52 Generally speaking, it is not recommended for women to enter this industry. As they get married and have children, they will definitely change their careers. It is better to enter another industry as soon as possible

Yes, this problem came up when I graduated.  

qq849682862

wanghlady posted on 2015-4-10 09:56 Yes, this question came up the year I graduated

Go work as a clerk in a medium or large company. You will have a better platform to find a partner and the income should not be lower than your current income. It will be easy and enjoyable. Why bother yourself too much?

qwqwqw2088

wanghlady posted on 2015-4-10 09:38 Your Majesty, where should you retire to? Please give me some advice

I think you should do research and development for a while, or do some product technology, testing, etc., which is also a very important job, or do some auxiliary work in the project team, etc. If this company has a future and the salary is decent, don't jump, or stay there and become a wife. One day, "palace" will become "I", and then you will just be annoyed by others. :lol, Either send your resume to soso, go to eeworld, drift in Beijing, hehe

wanghlady

qwqwqw2088 posted on 2015-4-10 10:12 I think you should do some R&D for a while, or do some product technology, testing, etc. This is also a very important job, or do some auxiliary work in the project team, etc. If this company has a future and the salary is decent, don't jump, or stay here, you will become a wife, and one day, "palace" will become "I", and then you will just be annoyed with others. Either send your resume to soso, go to eeworld, drift in Beijing, hehe

Your Majesty has troubled me with these little things, and I have typed so many words, I am very tired

wanghlady

qq849682862 posted on 2015-4-10 10:09 Go to a medium-sized or large company and do a clerical job. It will be a better platform for finding a partner and it will be easier. The income should not be lower than your current income and it will be easy and enjoyable. Why bother yourself too much?

Yes, yes