I feel insulted, and I feel a little sad.

wanghlady

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My boss dislikes me because I am a woman and I don’t have a graduate degree. Some of his words are particularly harsh, but I have to smile gently so as not to affect my image. Sometimes I regret choosing such a major. As a woman, I may have to do much better than my male colleagues to be recognized. Although I am not particularly smart, I never fall behind or drag my feet. I do the same job but my salary is much less than that of men. What else do I want? The company provides lunch. After lunch every day, male colleagues pat their butts and leave, but female colleagues have to stay to wash dishes, clean the kitchen, clean the office and kitchen, and continue working in the afternoon. Some things make me sadder the more I think about them.

dontium

Why don’t you call me “I”? This shows that you have the mentality of a supporting role. Besides, complaints and psychological imbalance…are common to everyone. You can’t think about how you are wronged and how to “resist”. If you only hear people encouraging you to “fire your boss”, then they are blinding you—unless your next step is brighter than the current one. Everyone will feel wronged. No matter what job you do, you will feel wronged. No matter who you get along with, you will feel wronged… When you eat, your tongue will also feel wronged. If you bite it with your teeth, does that mean your tongue is no longer a proper one?

jiangwanli

Pat on the head :)

wanghlady

jiangwanli posted on 2015-4-9 22:11 Pat on the head

Nothing can make up for my broken heart

k331922164

I really admire female engineers. We also have women doing R&D in our company, and we haven't encountered the same problem as the poster.

wanghlady

k331922164 posted on 2015-4-9 22:17 I really admire female engineers. We also have female engineers doing R&D in our company, and we haven’t encountered the problem described by the poster.

There are all kinds of things in this world, lucky ones, unlucky ones. . . .

651076842

Your company probably doesn't have many people, so everyone can cook and eat in the company. My previous company was like this, but the situation you described didn't occur. Is your company an exception? You might as well just fire the boss.

wanghlady

651076842 posted on 2015-4-9 22:24 Your company should not have too many people, everyone can cook and eat in the company, my previous company was also like this, but the situation you mentioned did not occur, is your company an exception, just fire the boss

Small companies with about 20 people, each company is different

简单happy

I especially admire female engineers.

wanghlady

Simple happy posted on 2015-4-9 22:29 I especially admire female engineers

I feel very embarrassed

白丁

The women in our company are not like this. Some company leaders are really not good and don't respect people. I have encountered this. If it doesn't work, change to another company and don't serve it.

蓝雨夜

If you can overcome it yourself, then change your environment!

wanghlady

Bai Ding posted on 2015-4-9 22:34 The women in our company are not like this. Some company leaders are really not good and don't respect people. I have encountered this. If it doesn't work, I will change to another company and not serve it.

It is difficult for women to find jobs when they reach a certain age. They will have to get married, have children and take care of them.

wanghlady

Blue Rain Night posted on 2015-4-9 22:36 You can overcome it yourself. If you can't overcome it, then change your environment!

To overcome it means to endure it. I don't know where to go.

k331922164

wanghlady posted on 2015-4-9 22:22 There are all kinds of things in this world, lucky and unlucky. . . .

If you are unhappy, just quit. I don’t recommend women to do R&D either.

蓝雨夜

wanghlady posted on 2015-4-9 22:38 To overcome is to endure, I don’t know where to go

Then don’t think too much, do your job well, and learn more when you have time. Talk to colleagues and leaders, since we are all employees, we must do things fairly. Housework and hygiene can be arranged!

wanghlady

k331922164 posted on 2015-4-9 22:40 If you are not happy, just quit. I don’t recommend women to do R&D

I don’t know what else I can do. I am not talkative. I still want to make some money. I don’t want to hide under the street lights and sell insoles when I am 70 years old. I don’t know how to make insoles.

wanghlady

Blue Rain Night posted on 2015-4-9 22:42 Then don't think too much, just do your job well, and learn more when you have time. I have agreed with my colleagues and leaders that since we are all employees, we should all do things fairly. Housework and hygiene can be arranged!

Yes, I just want to do my job quietly. When I feel unhappy, I can come here to complain and it will pass if I endure it.

强仔00001

{:1_133:}{:1_133:}I feel so sad

wanghlady

qiangzi00001 posted on 2015-4-9 23:56 So sad

Not too sour, just a little sour

elvike

Employees should also be respected. If it doesn't work, change the environment. Don't be too wronged